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Post-Event Update: Astor’s 2nd Annual Antique Appraisal

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Post-Event Update: Astor’s 2nd Annual Antique AppraisalASC-20130414-ZA-0074 

Here is the good news for all those folks who attended Astor Services for Children & Families’ 2nd Annual Antique Appraisal on April 14. They received some pretty good estimates on the value of the items they had appraised.

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Astor’s 2nd Annual Antique Appraisal, Sunday April 14, 2013

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So, what can you expect when you arrive at The Vassar Alumnae House?  Well, for starters, we’ve got a hot list of appraisers — Nancy Freese, Estate Sales Service, Annex Antique Center, Red Hook, Jay Grutman, Rhinebeck Antique Emporium, and Charles Glasner of Hudson River Antiques, Highland to name a few.

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Strive to Thrive: Train Your Toddler’s Brain, Part 3

Pre school

Last fall, I wrote about self-regulation, the important “brain training” that is needed for children to be competent and confident.   Parents can help their babies develop this important skill with warm, responsive, and predictable parenting.  When your children are toddlers, you can continue to train their brains by developing your own calmness, telling your toddler what to expect, and teaching them how to behave.

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Sandy Hook Elementary School

As the images of the victims from Sandy Hook Elementary School are being broadcasted throughout our country, we are confronted with the reality that these children look so much like our own children. While we mourn the victims of Sandy Hook, let’s not forget that in many communities, the death of innocent children by gun violence happens way too often. This was the seventh mass murder in this country this year. Let’s not forget the past victims.  And most important, let’s act.

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Astor Memories: Connecting Our Past with Our Future

Do people my age self analyze their past and their future, while applying present circumstances, and ever feel completely satisfied?

My answer is of course we do—constantly!
Personally, I find most things in my present and future connect to the past. Over time, I have experienced how these connections make themselves known, how as they unfold or envelope the present and reveal just who I am now.…

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Simple Ways to Keep the Holiday Season Fun and Stress-Free

The holiday season seems to start earlier every year!

This year, when I went to look for Halloween candy I saw some Christmas decorations at the supermarket!  And we all know that, when the season is here, we see images of happy, healthy, wealthy folks who seem to have it all together all the time.  But anyone who is raising kids knows…

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Astor Memories: How Astor Services Shaped My Working Life

The most influential and inspiring messages, with the greatest impact on my life, have always been something spoken quietly to me.Thinking back on the people and staff of Astor always made me wonder about their work and how I can now appreciate what they do. Out of these thoughts came ideas regarding good-works vs. work, career vs. job, calling vs. transitional employment.…

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Strive to Thrive: How to Train Your Toddler’s Brain, Part 2

Self-regulation, or the ability to choose behaviors that are right for the context a child is in, is very important and we can all help our kids get better and better at it as they grow up.

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An Astonishing Gift: Astor Memories from Harry Brown, Part II

A staffer drove me to my mother’s home for my first visit at Thanksgiving time. We traveled by train and sometimes Greyhound through Grand Central Station up to Boston. I eventually made the trips alone. I learned to love independent travel at this time­­–I have since traveled far and wide.

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Strive to Thrive: Building Confidence in Your Kids, Part I

Did you know that the roots of confidence and competence start when your child is just a baby? In my business, we call these roots “self-regulation,” which is a fancy way to say that a child (or adult) can be in charge of their own thinking, emotions, and behaviors.

By helping your kids develop the ability to be in charge of themselves in a healthy way, you can build their confidence in themselves and make them more likely to do well at home, in school, and with friends.  In short, YOU can TRAIN YOUR CHILD’S BRAIN.

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